Monthly Archives: December 2013

Adoption search—what’s in your piñata?

“Happy fifth of May—Cinco de Mayo” If you were separated from your birth parents or biological child and didn’t know where to find them, have you ever wished that everything you ever expected to find in your ceremonial cornerstone could be … Continue reading

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Adoption—a clash between conscience and passion!

Adoption sparks our private passions and raises our consciousness at every stage of our lives. Attempts to rationalize our thoughts are characterized as a continuous struggle between conscience, logic and reason in favor of the passions of temptations. Adoption galvanizes … Continue reading

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Adoption—should I spy on my birth mother?

I was slowly coming to the realization that the origin of my life was more complex than an unsolved Rubik’s Cube. I had no idea why Rebecca Maier’s response to my question had been so mysterious and impenetrable when I asked … Continue reading

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Adoption—your birth mother played the violin

My adopted mother Rosella was diagnosed with terminal cancer. Reaching out for sympathy and emotional support she had quietly stated, “There is something I want to tell you before I die. Your birth mother’s name was Becky, Rebecca, Roberta or … Continue reading

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Adoption—chance encounters with biological family members!

“Innocuous chance encounters with biological family members fed my curiosity and strengthened my desire to know something about my genealogy. Over time, I became increasingly introspective about these incidents and wondered why our souls had collided somewhere along life’s trajectory … Continue reading

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