“Five Mothers” Judith Land

“The most important thing I learned from my adoption search is, if a parent can love more than one child, then a child can love more than one parent.” —Judith Land

This simple parable is the most endearing way of addressing the idea of choosing between birth parents and adoptive parents (which really isn’t necessary and no adoptee should ever be forced to do so) because it is possible for an adoptee to love everyone equally, just as parents unconditionally love all of their children.

“The emotional journey to uncover my true identity was a glorious adventure. When I finally met my birth parents for the first time my sense of well-being and completeness soared to heavenly heights. Our tearfully happy reunion was the epic conclusion of a formidable and arduous adoption story. The ecclesiastic experience solidified many conclusions about life, love, parenting, and enduring relationships.” —Judith Land

“My four new mothers—Rebecca, Priscilla, Grace and Vivian. The emotional journey to uncover my true identity was a glorious adventure. When I met my birth parents my sense of well-being and completeness soared to heavenly heights. Our tearfully happy reunion was the epic conclusion of a formidable and arduous adoption story. The ecclesiastic experience solidified many conclusions about life, love, parenting, and enduring relationships. I was happy knowing that I now had five mothers to love, and they loved me too.” —Judith Land

My outlook on life brightened when it occurred to me that my life had been enhanced by the addition of ‘four new mothers’ to love in addition to my adoptive mother Rosella. The gratitude and appreciation I felt toward my adoptive mother soared after I met my biological parents. Our shared memories during the early part of my life and the positive role she had played during my childhood were highly important to me. My biological mother Rebecca was an overnight celebrity in my life. I felt at ease with her because she was unconditionally accepting of me as her oldest daughter. The wonderful relationship we developed over time was cause for many joyous celebrations. My newly discovered foster mother Priscilla was the third mother in my life. She was a wonderful friend—I truly loved her and my foster sisters, Mary and Barbara. The forth mother I had to love was my mother-in-law Grace. We had many things in common. She was a classy lady with exceptional talents as a cook and entertainer, college teacher, artist, and writer. My fifth mother Vivian was my step mother and second wife of my adoptive father. She was an excellent companion, avid golfer and boater, and a practical individual with an exceptional talent for keeping my father informed about current events and business news.

Knowing that a parent can love more than one child and a child can love more than one parent helped me become a better person. After my adoption search I had more people to love in my life and more people to love me.

Judith Land

 

 

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“Lo más importante que aprendí de mi búsqueda de la adopción es, si un padre puede amar a más de un hijo, entonces un niño puede amar a más de un padre.” —Judith Land, autor y adoptado

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About Judith Land

Judith Land lives in Colorado and Arizona with husband and coauthor Martin Land. Judith is a former nurse, retail shop owner, college instructor and avid outdoor person. Her book "Adoption Detective: Memoir of an Adopted Child" is a true story detailing the journey of Judith Romano, foster child and adoptee, as she discovers fragments of her background, and then sets out to solve the mystery as an adult. "Mothers and fathers everywhere in the world need to understand that children are forever and always." --Judith Land
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  1. Pingback: Adoption—a course in miracles! —Judith Land | Adoption Detective | A Novel By Judith Land

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